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Another day, another death

February 29th, 2008

She didn’t make it. Seems like they never do anymore. I’ll miss ya, little one.




The tabby was put down this morning. Brain tumor. Her little black junco partner died not quite a year ago, kicking off a year of tragedy, horror, and loss I won’t forget, much as I’d like to. God, if you’re listening — not that I believe that for a second — I could sure use a little vacation from this whole “people and things I love being snatched from my embrace” thing right about now, y’hear? Kthxbye.

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  1. February 29th, 2008 at 08:37 | #1
    Oh, I am so sorry. Losing a pet is the worst. It's a totally uncomplicated, piercing grief.
  2. February 29th, 2008 at 08:40 | #2
    Thanks, Miz W. At least she isn't suffering now - and she was yesterday, definitely.
  3. Rusty
    February 29th, 2008 at 08:42 | #3
    Jeez, Mike, not again. Get somebody to take that "kick me" sign off your back. And the one that says " that wasn't hard enough, kick again". Ol' buddy, it's gonna get better. That's the one thought that keeps me opening my eyes every morning.
  4. February 29th, 2008 at 08:50 | #4
    Ummm...obviously not THE worst. Poor choice of words.

    As soon as you can bear to think about it, get a cat. Or a dog this time, maybe. Not to replace the missing cat, but because (thanks to those selfish bastards who don't bother to spay) the pet-to-people ratio is seriously messed up.

    That's how I sugar-coat it for myself, anyway: another opportunity to adopt an animal and spoil it shamelessly.

  5. February 29th, 2008 at 08:54 | #5
    Condolences, Mike. It's been an awful year.
  6. February 29th, 2008 at 09:51 | #6
    Damn, Mike.

    Enough is enough. Isn't it weird that the departure of pain for one leaves so much pain behind for the other? I've often wondered about that particular balance.

    Better times someday, brother. Hang in.

  7. February 29th, 2008 at 11:32 | #7
    That sucks, and sucks hard. It's like adding injury to injury.

    It obviously isn't the worst thing that could happen — I suspect that "honor" goes to "losing a child" — but the loss of a pet has a unique sort of pain attached to it.

    Hang tough, my friend.

  8. Allen
    February 29th, 2008 at 11:43 | #8
    Yeah it makes you wonder if anyone is listening. Hang tough, it's the only thing left sometimes, enduring. Best
  9. February 29th, 2008 at 11:51 | #9
    Thanks, all. You're too kind, and your kindness is much appreciated.
  10. Jacko
    February 29th, 2008 at 12:01 | #10
    Dear Mike , My most sinceir condolences on your losses . But you are being hardened for a reason . We will need tough leaders to make wrenching choices in the future and it looks and sounds like you would make a fine one . I admire your writing and judgement and we need you to look to the future with a cold calm eye .
  11. February 29th, 2008 at 18:32 | #11
    From an erstwhile reader who found your via Sondra KisP, my heart goes out to ya. A broken heart reminds us that we are human. Mother Nature is a heartless bitch....cold and calculating to the end.

    My experience with God, on the other-hand, is willing to listen and does respond in ways we might not recognize fer years.

    Howzabout this lil' prayer to settle a wounded soul:

    " May the roda rise up to meet you,
    The wind be always at your back.
    May the sun shin warm upon your face,
    The rains fall soft upon your fields.
    And until we meet again,
    May God hold you in the palm of his hand."

  12. Fred from Baltimore
    March 1st, 2008 at 12:47 | #12
    Dude,
    Have long enjoyed your blog, an must now post to wish you well. I concur with a previous poster....get anohther cat from your nearest shelter, or maybe 2 so they have a buddy to hang out with. You will never replace the one you lost, but they will be a comfort to you.

    They were to me.

    I'm tough and a man and all, but I hung my head and cried the day I had to put my buddy down. He was the meanest damn tomcat you ever met, 14 lbs of pure attitude, afraid of nothing and nobody, adn he took no shit, not even from me.

    ESPECIALLY not from me.

    Chin up, bro. I know where you are coming from.

    Fred from Baltimore

  13. Nancy
    March 1st, 2008 at 15:28 | #13
    Sorry Mike.
  14. DaveP.
    March 1st, 2008 at 19:35 | #14
    My favorite of five (my Little Grey Bowling Ball of Love) went down for the last time earlier this year. My heart's with you, brother.
    Fred's right, though. There's a lot of cats and ladies out there who need love, and it'd be a crime against yourself not to find them.
  15. March 2nd, 2008 at 09:19 | #15
    Mike,

    I am terribly sorry. I am at a loss for words, so I'll leave it at that.

  16. March 2nd, 2008 at 14:23 | #16
    Very sorry to hear this, Mike.
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